Unconditional Parenting

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ISBN: 1416531831
Release Date: 2006-03-28
Number of pages: 272
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Download and read online Unconditional Parenting in PDF and EPUB Most parenting guides begin with the question "How can we get kids to do what they're told?"--and then proceed to offer various techniques for controlling them. In this truly groundbreaking book, nationally respected educator Alfie Kohn begins instead by asking "What do kids need--and how can we meet those needs?" What follows from that question are ideas for working with children rather than doing things to them. One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful, and largely unknown, research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send. More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting--including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering book that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.


Liebe und Eigenst ndigkeit

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ISBN: 386781015X
Release Date: 2010
Number of pages: 298
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher:

Download and read online Liebe und Eigenst ndigkeit in PDF and EPUB Der amerikanische Erziehungsexperte plädiert für bedingungslose Elternliebe und eine Erziehung ohne Belohnung und Bestrafung.


Jungen

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ISBN: 9783641141127
Release Date: 2014-07-24
Number of pages: 256
Author: Steve Biddulph
Publisher: Heyne Verlag

Download and read online Jungen in PDF and EPUB Vom Autor des Weltbestsellers "Das Geheimnis glücklicher Kinder" Der australische Familientherapeut Steve Biddulph plädiert für ein neues Verständnis von Jungen: Sie gehen mit Leistungsdruck anders um als Mädchen und geraten häufiger in Schwierigkeiten. Biddulph zeigt Eltern, was in ihren Söhnen wirklich vorgeht, und erläutert, wie sie zu glücklichen und selbstbewussten Männern heranwachsen. «Ein Buch, von dem sich Erwachsene wünschen, ihre Eltern hätten es gelesen.» TZ, München


Das Gl ck der positiven Erziehung

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ISBN: 3478070406
Release Date: 1986-01
Number of pages: 336
Author: Wayne W. Dyer
Publisher:

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Disziplin ohne Drama

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ISBN: 3867811261
Release Date: 2015-07
Number of pages: 330
Author: Daniel J. Siegel
Publisher:

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Calm Parents Happy Kids

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ISBN: 9781473502659
Release Date: 2014-09-04
Number of pages: 304
Author: Dr. Laura Markham
Publisher: Random House

Download and read online Calm Parents Happy Kids in PDF and EPUB Calm Parents, Happy Kids is the UK version of Dr Laura Markham's hugely successful and ground-breaking book, Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids. Now adapted for UK audiences, this practical and inspiring book reveals a three step programme that will transform family life. Most parenting books focus on changing a child's behaviour, but the truth is that children only change when their relationship with their parents changes. In Calm Parents, Happy Kids, Dr Laura Markham introduces an approach to parenting that eliminates threats, power struggles and manipulation, in favour of setting limits with empathy and communication. Bringing together the latest research in brain development with a focus on emotional awareness (for both parents and children), it will appeal to all parents who don’t want to force their children into compliance and lose their temper, but want to keep calm and help their children want to behave.


Im Alltag Ruhe finden

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ISBN: 9783426421734
Release Date: 2013-05-02
Number of pages: 224
Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn
Publisher: Knaur MensSana eBook

Download and read online Im Alltag Ruhe finden in PDF and EPUB Meditieren kann man im Gehen, im Stehen und im Liegen, zu Hause und unterwegs, beim Treppensteigen und sogar beim Geschirrspülen. Dieser Meditationsklassiker enthält eine Fülle von Übungen, mit denen man einerseits lernt, sich voll zu konzentrieren, andererseits aber auch, richtig abzuschalten. Meditation ist ein einfach umzusetzendes Mittel, den Alltag besser zu bewältigen sowie um ruhiger und gelassener zu werden und gesund zu bleiben.


Warum franz sische Kinder keine Nervens gen sind

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ISBN: 9783641101572
Release Date: 2013-02-25
Number of pages: 368
Author: Pamela Druckerman
Publisher: Mosaik Verlag

Download and read online Warum franz sische Kinder keine Nervens gen sind in PDF and EPUB Erziehen statt Verziehen. Warum werfen französische Kinder im Restaurant nicht mit Essen, sagen immer höflich Bonjour und lassen ihre Mütter in Ruhe telefonieren? Und warum schlafen französische Babys schon mit zwei oder drei Monaten durch? Als Pamela Druckerman der Liebe wegen nach Paris zieht und bald darauf ein Kind bekommt, entdeckt sie schnell, dass französische Eltern offensichtlich einiges anders machen – und zwar besser. In diesem unterhaltsamen Erfahrungsbericht lüftet sie die Geheimnisse der Erziehung à la française.


Selbstbild

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ISBN: 9783492972826
Release Date: 2016-05-02
Number of pages: 304
Author: Carol Dweck
Publisher: Piper ebooks

Download and read online Selbstbild in PDF and EPUB Spitzensportler, Geigenvirtuosen, Elitestudenten, Karrieremenschen – in der Regel sprechen wir Erfolge den Begabungen des Menschen zu. Doch dieser Glaube ist nicht nur falsch, er hindert auch unser persönliches Fortkommen und schränkt unser Potenzial ein. Die Psychologin Carol Dweck beweist: Entscheidend für die Entwicklung eines Menschen ist nicht das Talent, sondern das eigene Selbstbild. Was es damit auf sich hat, wie Ihr eigenes Selbstbild aussieht und wie Sie diese Erkenntnisse für sich persönlich nutzen können, erfahren Sie in diesem Buch.


Parentonomics

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ISBN: 9780262257749
Release Date: 2010-08-27
Number of pages: 256
Author: Joshua Gans
Publisher: MIT Press

Download and read online Parentonomics in PDF and EPUB Like any new parent, Joshua Gans felt joy mixed with anxiety upon the birth of his first child. Who was this blanket-swaddled small person and what did she want? Unlike most parents, however, Gans is an economist, and he began to apply the tools of his trade to raising his children. He saw his new life as one big economic management problem -- and if economics helped him think about parenting, parenting illuminated certain economic principles. Parentonomics is the entertaining, enlightening, and often hilarious fruit of his "research." Incentives, Gans shows us, are as risky in parenting as in business. An older sister who is recruited to help toilet train her younger brother for a share in the reward given for each successful visit to the bathroom, for example, could give the trainee drinks of water to make the rewards more frequent. (Economics later offered another, better toilet training solution: outsourcing. For their third child, Gans and his wife put it in the hands of professionals--the day care providers.) Gans gives us the parentonomic view of delivery (if the mother shares her pain by yelling at the father, doesn't it really create more aggregate pain?), sleep (the screams of a baby are like an offer: "I'll stop screaming if you give me attention"), food (a question of marketing), travel ("the best thing you can say about traveling with children is that they are worse than baggage"), punishment (and threat credibility), birthday party time management, and more. Parents: if you're reading Parentonomics in the presence of other people, you'll be unable to keep yourself from reading the funny parts out loud. And if you're reading it late at night and wake a child with your laughter -- well, you'll have some guidelines for negotiating a return to bed.


Feeling good together

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ISBN: 9783873877269
Release Date: 2010
Number of pages: 255
Author: David D. Burns
Publisher: Junfermann Verlag GmbH

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Brain Rules f r Ihr Baby

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ISBN: 3456852371
Release Date: 2013
Number of pages: 304
Author: John Medina
Publisher:

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Der Tag an dem ich aufh rte Beeil Dich zu sagen

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ISBN: 9783843711142
Release Date: 2015-05-08
Number of pages: 304
Author: Rachel Macy Stafford
Publisher: Ullstein eBooks

Download and read online Der Tag an dem ich aufh rte Beeil Dich zu sagen in PDF and EPUB »Dafür haben wir jetzt keine Zeit«, war lange der Satz, den die Töchter von Rachel Macy Stafford am häufigsten von ihrer Mutter hörten. Die junge Frau verlor sich geradezu in ihrem hektischen Alltag, während sie versuchte, allen Ansprüchen gerecht zu werden. Bis es schließlich nicht mehr weiterging.Nicht für sie, nicht für ihren Partner und vor allem nicht für ihre Kinder. Rachel Macy Stafford zog daraufhin die Reißleine und beschloss, ihr Leben zu ändern. Sie entwickelte ein Programm für mehr Achtsamkeit und Gelassenheit und lernte so auch selbst, endlich wieder bewusst Zeit mit ihrer Familie zu verbringen.


Anger Guilt and Shame Reclaiming Power and Choice

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ISBN: 9789197944281
Release Date: 2012-09
Number of pages: 216
Author: Liv Larsson
Publisher: Lulu.com

Download and read online Anger Guilt and Shame Reclaiming Power and Choice in PDF and EPUB This book can help you make shame, guilt and anger your allies instead of our enemies. They can become keys to your inner life and to your dreams. Getting to know these feelings will help you better meet your needs for respect, acceptance, belonging and freedom. What would be possible if you no longer needed to shrink yourself to avoid shame or guilt?


Pride and Joy

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ISBN: 9780199976379
Release Date: 2012-05-28
Number of pages: 280
Author: Kenneth Barish Ph.D.
Publisher: Oxford University Press

Download and read online Pride and Joy in PDF and EPUB Pride and Joy is a different kind of parenting book. In Pride and Joy, child psychologist Kenneth Barish brings together the best of recent advances in clinical and neuroscience research with the author's three decades of experience working with children and families. He shows how a deeper appreciation of our children's emotions offers parents a new understanding of their children's development and better solutions to the problems in their lives. Barish offers advice to parents on how we can restore more joyfulness and pride in our relationships with our children and how we can help children bounce back from disappointment and defeat. He shows how we can repair family relationships that have been damaged by frequent anger and resentment and how we can preserve our children's idealism and their concern for others--how we can raise children who feel good about themselves and also care about the needs and feelings of others. Barish also offers advice on how to solve problems of daily family life--establishing rules and limits, doing homework and going to sleep, winning and losing at games, our children's reluctance to talk to us, their tantrums and lack of motivation, and their addiction to television and video games. He presents down-to-earth recommendations for solving these common family problems--problems that too often erode the joyfulness of our children and our pleasure in being parents. Pride and Joy is both informative and highly practical, and a balanced answer to the extreme methods that too often dominate parenting debates. Few parenting books address the central issues of concern to today's parents while also offering parents as much day-to-day advice.