Unconditional Parenting

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ISBN: 1416531831
Release Date: 2006-03-28
Number of pages: 272
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Download and read online Unconditional Parenting in PDF and EPUB Most parenting guides begin with the question "How can we get kids to do what they're told?"--and then proceed to offer various techniques for controlling them. In this truly groundbreaking book, nationally respected educator Alfie Kohn begins instead by asking "What do kids need--and how can we meet those needs?" What follows from that question are ideas for working with children rather than doing things to them. One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful, and largely unknown, research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send. More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting--including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering book that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.


Unconditional Parenting

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ISBN: 9780743487481
Release Date: 2006-03-28
Number of pages: 264
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Download and read online Unconditional Parenting in PDF and EPUB The author of Punished by Rewards and The School Our Children Deserve builds on his parenting theories of working with children rather than trying to control them, argues against practices that teach children that they must earn a parent's approval, and presents techniques that promote desired child qualities through unconditional support. Reprint. 30,000 first printing.


The Myth of the Spoiled Child

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ISBN: 9780738217253
Release Date: 2014-03-25
Number of pages: 288
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher: Hachette UK

Download and read online The Myth of the Spoiled Child in PDF and EPUB Somehow, a set of deeply conservative assumptions about children--what they're like and how they should be raised--have congealed into the conventional wisdom in our society. Parents are accused of being both permissive and overprotective, unwilling to set limits and afraid to let their kids fail. Young people, meanwhile, are routinely described as entitled and narcissistic...among other unflattering adjectives. In The Myth of the Spoiled Child, Alfie Kohn systematically debunks these beliefs--not only challenging erroneous factual claims but also exposing the troubling ideology that underlies them. Complaints about pushover parents and coddled kids are hardly new, he shows, and there is no evidence that either phenomenon is especially widespread today--let alone more common than in previous generations. Moreover, new research reveals that helicopter parenting is quite rare and, surprisingly, may do more good than harm when it does occur. The major threat to healthy child development, John argues, is posed by parenting that is too controlling rather than too indulgent. With the same lively, contrarian style that marked his influential books about rewards, competition, and education, Kohn relies on a vast collection of social science data, as well as on logic and humor, to challenge assertions that appear with numbing regularity in the popular press. These include claims that young people suffer from inflated self-esteem; that they receive trophies, praise, and As too easily; and that they would benefit from more self-discipline and "grit." These conservative beliefs are often accepted without question, even by people who are politically liberal. Kohn's invitation to reexamine our assumptions is particularly timely, then; his book has the potential to change our culture's conversation about kids and the people who raise them.


Simplicity Parenting

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ISBN: 0345516982
Release Date: 2009-08-25
Number of pages: 256
Author: Kim John Payne
Publisher: Ballantine Books

Download and read online Simplicity Parenting in PDF and EPUB Today’s busier, faster society is waging an undeclared war on childhood. With too much stuff, too many choices, and too little time, children can become anxious, have trouble with friends and school, or even be diagnosed with behavioral problems. Now internationally renowned family consultant Kim John Payne helps parents reclaim for their children the space and freedom that all kids need for their attention to deepen and their individuality to flourish. Simplicity Parenting offers inspiration, ideas, and a blueprint for change: • Streamline your home environment. Reduce the amount of toys, books, and clutter—as well as the lights, sounds, and general sensory overload. • Establish rhythms and rituals. Discover ways to ease daily tensions, create battle-free mealtimes and bedtimes, and tell if your child is overwhelmed. • Schedule a break in the schedule. Establish intervals of calm and connection in your child’s daily torrent of constant doing. • Scale back on media and parental involvement. Manage your children’s “screen time” to limit the endless deluge of information and stimulation. A manifesto for protecting the grace of childhood, Simplicity Parenting is an eloquent guide to bringing new rhythms to bear on the lifelong art of raising children.


How to Really Love Your Child

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ISBN: 9781434709646
Release Date: 2015-04-01
Number of pages: 160
Author: Ross Campbell
Publisher: David C Cook

Download and read online How to Really Love Your Child in PDF and EPUB You know you love your child. You attend school events, care for physical needs, and discipline when needed. But did you know that most children, even in loving households, doubt that they are genuinely and unconditionally loved? In Dr. Ross Campbell’s groundbreaking book, he explains the emotional needs of a child and provides you with skills that will help your child feel truly loved and accepted. Using eye contact, affirmation, and spiritual nurturing, you’ll learn to really love your child no matter what the circumstances. The practical applications in How to Really Love Your Child have already helped over 2 million parents around the world show love to their children in a way that can be received and returned, again and again.


Emotional Life of the Toddler

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ISBN: 9781439106716
Release Date: 1995-05-01
Number of pages: 244
Author: Alicia F. Lieberman
Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Download and read online Emotional Life of the Toddler in PDF and EPUB Although a number of books discuss the physical and cognitive abilities of the toddler, Alicia F. Lieberman’s is the first to examine the varied and intense emotional life of children from ages one to three in Emotional Life of the Toddler. Any parent who has followed an active toddler around for a day knows that a child of this age is a whirlwind of explosive, contradictory, and ever-changing emotions. Although there are any number of books that cover the physical and cognitive abilities of the toddler, Lieberman’s is the first to offer an in-depth examination of the varied and intense emotional life of children from ages one to three. Drawing on her lifelong research, Dr. Lieberman addresses commonly asked questions and issues. Why, for example, is “no” often the favorite response of the toddler? How should parents deal with the anger they sometimes feel in the face of their toddler’s unflagging obstinacy? Why does a crying toddler run to his mother for a hug only to push himself vigorously away as soon as she begins to embrace him? With the help of numerous examples and vivid cases, Lieberman answers these and other questions, giving us, in the process, a rich, insightful profile of the roller coaster emotional world of the toddler.


The Daily Groove

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ISBN: 145375721X
Release Date: 2008-05-22
Number of pages: 230
Author: Scott Noelle
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Download and read online The Daily Groove in PDF and EPUB THE DAILY GROOVE is an introduction to Scott Noelle's holistic parenting philosophy and a collection of more than 175 brief, simple, one-a-day tips and techniques for transforming the daily "grind" of parenting into a joyful daily "groove"! Ideal for parents who want to cultivate a spirit of creative partnership in their families, this book also makes a great gift for new parents and parents-to-be.FROM THE BACK COVER:"I've read a lot about parenting from many, many different people, but your words just have a way of going straight to my heart. They have been truly life-changing for me and my husband." --Amy (Maryland, US). "I really love The Daily Groove. It's nice to have something that takes a short while to read and gives me a boost for my day with my two adventurous, energetic boys." --Jeanette (New Zealand). "I just wanted to tell you how uplifting I find The Daily Groove. I use it as my morning meditation, and I have become a much gentler and patient mother." --Sarah (Georgia, US). "Your Daily Groove tips have changed my parenting completely for the better. I've read every parenting book I could get my hands on, but your approach is the first that's matched with my world view, resonated with my soul, doesn't make me feel bad about myself, and works all the time!" --Anna (Brighton, UK).


No Contest

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ISBN: 9780547527390
Release Date: 2013-11-19
Number of pages: 336
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt

Download and read online No Contest in PDF and EPUB No Contest stands as the definitive critique of competition. Contrary to accepted wisdom, competition is not basic to human nature; it poisons our relationships and holds us back from doing our best. In this new edition, Alfie Kohn argues that the race to win turns all of us into losers.


Punished by Rewards

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ISBN: 0547526156
Release Date: 1999-09-30
Number of pages: 448
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt

Download and read online Punished by Rewards in PDF and EPUB The basic strategy we use for raising children, teaching students, and managing workers can be summarized in six words: Do this and you'll get that. We dangle goodies (from candy bars to sales commissions) in front of people in much the same way we train the family pet. Drawing on a wealth of psychological research, Alfie Kohn points the way to a more successful strategy based on working with people instead of doing things to them. "Do rewards motivate people?" asks Kohn. "Yes. They motivate people to get rewards." Seasoned with humor and familiar examples, Punished By Rewards presents an argument unsettling to hear but impossible to dismiss.


Calm Parents Happy Kids

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ISBN: 9781473502659
Release Date: 2014-09-04
Number of pages: 304
Author: Dr. Laura Markham
Publisher: Random House

Download and read online Calm Parents Happy Kids in PDF and EPUB Calm Parents, Happy Kids is the UK version of Dr Laura Markham's hugely successful and ground-breaking book, Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids. Now adapted for UK audiences, this practical and inspiring book reveals a three step programme that will transform family life. Most parenting books focus on changing a child's behaviour, but the truth is that children only change when their relationship with their parents changes. In Calm Parents, Happy Kids, Dr Laura Markham introduces an approach to parenting that eliminates threats, power struggles and manipulation, in favour of setting limits with empathy and communication. Bringing together the latest research in brain development with a focus on emotional awareness (for both parents and children), it will appeal to all parents who don’t want to force their children into compliance and lose their temper, but want to keep calm and help their children want to behave.


Discipline Without Distress

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ISBN: 0978050908
Release Date: 2007-03-01
Number of pages: 440
Author: Judy Arnall
Publisher: Discipline Without Distress:

Download and read online Discipline Without Distress in PDF and EPUB A positive discipline book of practical tips, strategies, skills and ideas for parents of babies through teenagers. Describes exactly what to do "in the moment" for every type of behavior, from whining to web surfing.


Playful Parenting

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ISBN: 9780307489609
Release Date: 2008-11-19
Number of pages: 320
Author: Lawrence J. Cohen
Publisher: Ballantine Books

Download and read online Playful Parenting in PDF and EPUB Parents have heard that play is a child's work--but play is not for kids only. As psychologist Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., demonstrates in this delightful new book, play can be the basis for an innovative and rewarding approach to parenting. From eliciting a giggle during baby's first game of peek-a-boo to cracking jokes with a teenager while hanging out at the mall, Playful Parenting is a complete guide to using play to raise strong, confident children. Have you ever stepped back to watch what really goes on when your children play? As Dr. Cohen points out, play is children's complex and fluid way of exploring the world, communicating hard-to-express feelings, getting close to those they care about, working through stressful situations, and simply blowing off steam. That's why "playful parenting" is so important and so successful in building strong, close bonds between parents and children. Through play we join our kids in their world. We help them express and understand deep emotions, foster connection, aid the process of emotional healing--and have a great time ourselves while we're at it. Anyone can be a playful parent--all it takes is a sense of adventure and a willingness to let down your guard and try something new. After identifying why it can be hard for adults to play, Dr. Cohen discusses how to get down on the floor and join children on their own terms. He covers games, activities, and playful interactions that parents can enjoy with children of all ages, whether it's gazing deep into a baby's eyes, playing chase with a toddler, fantasy play with a grade schooler, or reducing a totally cool teenager to helpless laughter. Playful Parenting also includes illuminating chapters on how to use play to build a child's confidence and self-esteem, how to play through sibling rivalry, and how play can become a part of loving discipline. Written with love and humor, brimming with good advice and revealing anecdotes, and grounded in the latest research, Playful Parenting will make you laugh even as it makes you wise in the ways of being a happy, effective, enthusiastic parent. From the Hardcover edition.


Positive Parenting

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ISBN: 9781101992203
Release Date: 2016-06-07
Number of pages: 208
Author: Rebecca Eanes
Publisher: Penguin

Download and read online Positive Parenting in PDF and EPUB "This is a must-read for every family that yearns to create peace and harmony.” --Shefali Tsabary, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of The Conscious Parent Tired of yelling and nagging? True family connection is possible--and this essential guide shows us how. Popular parenting blogger Rebecca Eanes believes that parenting advice should be about more than just getting kids to behave. Struggling to maintain a meaningful connection with her two little ones and frustrated by the lack of emotionally aware books for parents, she began to share her own insights with readers online. Her following has grown into a thriving community--hundreds of thousands strong. In this eagerly anticipated guide, Eanes shares her hard-won wisdom for overcoming limiting thought patterns and recognizing emotional triggers, as well as advice for connecting with kids at each stage, from infancy to adolescence. This heartfelt, insightful advice comes not from an "expert," but from a learning, evolving parent. Filled with practical, solution-oriented advice, this is an empowering guide for any parent who longs to end the yelling, power struggles, and downward spiral of acting out, punishment, resentment, and shame--and instead foster an emotional connection that helps kids learn self-discipline, feel confident, and create lasting, loving bonds.


How to Raise an Adult

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ISBN: 9781627791786
Release Date: 2015-06-09
Number of pages: 368
Author: Julie Lythcott-Haims
Publisher: Henry Holt and Company

Download and read online How to Raise an Adult in PDF and EPUB New York Times Bestseller "Julie Lythcott-Haims is a national treasure. . . . A must-read for every parent who senses that there is a healthier and saner way to raise our children." -Madeline Levine, author of the New York Times bestsellers The Price of Privilege and Teach Your Children Well "For parents who want to foster hearty self-reliance instead of hollow self-esteem, How to Raise an Adult is the right book at the right time." -Daniel H. Pink, author of the New York Times bestsellers Drive and A Whole New Mind A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success. Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.


The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting

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ISBN: 9781439126806
Release Date: 2017-03-28
Number of pages: 224
Author: Laurence Steinberg
Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Download and read online The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting in PDF and EPUB A Simon & Schuster eBook. Simon & Schuster has a great book for every reader.